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Impetuous Behavior Can Be Costly
Proverbs 14:8 (NLT) “The prudent understand where they are going, but fools deceive themselves.” Lillian gave her two-week notice right after getting a less-than-encouraging service rating at her job. It wasn’t like she hadn’t gotten one before, but this time, it was a wrap. She’d been at that job for over seventeen years, and while…
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The Power that Saves Your Souls
All of us get angry at some point in our lives. It’s part of being human, and nobody escapes it. Even our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, expressed anger at the Pharisees in Mark 3. He was deeply distressed at their stubborn hearts; they refused to have compassion and honor God’s healing power. He showed…
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God Is Compassionate
Luke 6:36 (NLT) “You must be compassionate, just as your Father is compassionate.” When it comes to understanding God’s nature, one of the most beautiful and comforting aspects is His compassion. I’ve had conversations with friends and fellow believers who struggle with misconceptions about God. They often don’t see Him this way, but instead view…
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I Still Dare to Hope
As sisters in Christ, we should remember to keep those who are emotionally hurting in our prayers. A harsh break-up can be one of the toughest emotional battles to face, and many women of faith are heartbroken and really going through it. It’s especially difficult when you’ve invested so much of yourself into a relationship,…
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Steps Ordained from the Very Beginning
Ephesians 2:10 (NLT) tells us, “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” This verse is a serious reality check. Our Heavenly Father has created us to fulfill His perfect plan for our lives. That includes the…
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Promotion Requires Preparation
Take a moment to look at your life—the blessings you’ve received, your job, the car you drive, and the people around you. Are you satisfied with where you are? Whether we realize it or not, all of us have a tremendous amount to be grateful for. We should be incredibly thankful to our Heavenly Father…
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Who Will You Serve?
Never did I imagine I would be that woman—the kind of woman who became nervous when my man took longer than usual at the store, the one who discretely checked his phone while he was in the shower, or the one who felt insecure at the thought of him spending time with friends instead of…
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Will God Give Me What I Desire Most?
As the clock struck midnight, my phone started buzzing with a flood of “Happy New Year!” messages. Friends and family were eager to reach out—and I was no different. On New Year’s Day, I called everyone I knew to wish them a great year ahead, including my friend Evelyn. “Girl, this is the year. I…
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Sacrifice for Better
We often hear a lot about the importance of sacrifice in relationships and what it means to die to ourselves for the person we love. But what about those times when God calls us to sacrifice what we want in order to receive something better? There are moments when He tells us to let go…
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Intention Leads to Inspiration
For many, the start of a new year brings a sense of anticipation for change, especially for God’s single children. Many prophets are declaring that this is the year to receive what has been promised to us, and there’s nothing more inspiring than having our faith ignited in the right direction. Jesus teaches in Mark…
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The Solution to Not Being Alone
Genesis 2:18 (NLT) tells us “Then the Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for him.” When we read this verse, we might make the mistake of thinking that God decided right there on the spot to make a helper for…
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Comfort for the Widowed
This past weekend, my good friend and coworker experienced an unimaginable loss—her husband was taken from her in a tragic event. The pain in her voice as she received the news was gut-wrenching. It shook all of us who were there with her. As I stood by her, I could only offer what little comfort…
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Feeling Good Is A Choice
Odds are, if you talked to ten different people about what makes them feel good, each of them would say something different. Most of us want these positive feelings in our lives, so much so that we seek relationships, situations, and other blessings that we believe will keep us in joy and bliss. However, we…
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If God Says It, Then It Will Happen
Spiritual maturity isn’t just about getting older – it’s about becoming more like our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. But let’s keep it real: growing older and maturing physically and mentally often means dealing with more baggage—baggage a lot of us we didn’t even realize we were carrying. Like me, I’m sure many of you…
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Impulsive Decisions
We live in an “on the double” culture where everything has to happen right now. If the truth is told, for many of us waiting isn’t just inconvenient, some of us act as if it’s plain unacceptable. If the drive-thru line takes too long, we get so angry about waiting that you can almost see…
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Under A Basket or On A Stand
More than any other time of the year, Christmas is meant to celebrate and demonstrate our gratitude to God for the birth and life of Jesus Christ. It should be a time of reflection, hope, and giving in a way that shows God’s love. It’s truly a precious season, but for those who are single…
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What Happens Next?
No one can truly describe heartbreak or understand the depth of pain it brings unless they’ve experienced it themselves. Even after going through a few broken relationships, when the next one ends, it still feels just as heavy and painful as the first. It’s like your whole world falls apart, both on the outside and…
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Braced for Impact
If you’ve ever flown on an airplane, you’ve probably heard the phrase “brace for impact” from the flight attendants. It’s a serious warning that tells you everything you would need to know in order to prepare for a potential crash or rough landing. The intent is that, in moments of extreme turbulence, you will need…
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When More is Required
Reordered Priorities in Singleness Do you know that God has a plan for how our single years are supposed to be occupied? Indeed, He does, and it doesn’t have anything to do with career goals or personal agendas. It has everything to do with worshiping Him and growing in faith. The Apostle Paul said in…
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The Right Man Won’t Rest Until It’s Settled
Psalm 37:4 (NLT) is a verse that should be imprinted on the minds and hearts of every person with a dream. It tells us, “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you your heart’s desires.” This truth sets the priorities of our sojourn on earth, and then it provides the promise of reward…
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The Enemy Thought He Had Me
From the very beginning, the enemy thought he had won when he tricked Eve into eating the forbidden fruit—the very act God had warned Adam not to do. What the enemy didn’t realize is that even in that moment when it seemed like Adam was defeated, God already had a plan in place. God’s plan…
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Accept the Correction
The holidays are a time of year when loved ones come together. It’s also a time that can be especially challenging for those who are single. We want so much to share our lives with someone significant, and the pressure to avoid loneliness can become overwhelming. A friend recently expressed her fear of being alone…
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Listen to the Lord
“Life is a trip!” If you’re like me, you’ve heard many people make this statement, and if we’re honest, we’d have to agree that, yes, indeed it is. To say that life is unpredictable is an understatement. One minute you may be at the pinnacle of joy and comfort, but the very next moment can…
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Hungry for a Breakthrough
“It’s time for a breakthrough!” You say to yourself after countless nights of tears, confusion, and waking up each morning wondering, When will it finally be my turn? One day, you will reach a point where you’re determined that wondering and questioning will no longer keep you in despair. Instead, they will become a driving…
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Life Built on Your Own Terms
On this Christian journey, we often face situations that push us to make changes in order to build a better life. And a better life is what all of us are striving to achieve, but we don’t always know the way to it, although most of us think that we do. Keeping it real: most…
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I Won’t Let Go Until the Blessing Comes
Are you afraid that you’ll never get married? Do you believe you’re not good enough, or have you allowed other fears and doubts to creep into your heart and mind? Recently, I watched a Christian woman begin to acquiesce to the possibility of never meeting someone who would want to marry her. She seemed resigned…
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Delight in God and Watch His Blessings Unfold
Psalm 37:4(NKJV) tells us, “Delight yourself also in the LORD, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.” This verse is a beautiful invitation from God to experience the deep joy and fulfillment that comes from seeking our Heavenly Father first in all things. Jesus Christ also tells us in Matthew 6:33 (NLT),…
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Tested by the Enemy
Once we make the decision to follow the Lord Jesus and give our lives to him, we are never the same. The Holy Spirit regenerates our human spirit and comes to live within us. Jesus Christ teaches us in John 16:13 that the Spirit will guide us into all truth. After we receive the salvation…
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A Permanent Fix to What’s Broken
With all its ups and downs, life can be very unpredictable, and for many, the most painful trial comes when a marriage is on the brink of falling apart. It’s when the person you vowed to love, honor, and cherish has walked away or seems emotionally distant. The hurt is real, and your mind is…
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Wait on the Lord
Our besties and good girlfriends want the best for us; that’s why we keep them close. So, sharing good news with them and others that we love comes naturally. When we’re excited about something—whether it’s a new job, a dream come true, or, in this case, a budding new relationship—we want to share that joy.…