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Learn to Discern Before You Give Your Heart
Developing the Wisdom to Recognize Character, Make Sound Decisions, and Protect Your Heart 1. Don’t Confuse Attraction with Discernment There’s nothing quite like meeting someone who catches your attention and makes you feel all warm and wonderful inside. He’s handsome, charming, easy to talk to, and seems to know exactly what to say. Before long,…
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Know Yourself Before Becoming a Wife
Understanding the Woman You Are Before Sharing Your Life with Someone Else 1. Know Who You Are in Christ Before you think about becoming a wife, it’s really important to have a good understanding of who you are without a husband. This isn’t about your career, your education, how much money you make, or how…
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When Reality Finally Catches Up with Truth
Ecclesiastes 7:12 (NLT) “Wisdom and money can get you almost anything, but only wisdom can save your life.” I was talking to a Christian woman the other day, and she told me she sometimes wishes she could do her life over again. She’s in her late fifties and has never experienced married life. She admitted…
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When the Relationship Has Reached Its Expiration Date
When you know it’s a Wrap God created men with the capacity for relationship, family, and responsibility. From the very beginning, His design included fruitfulness, legacy, and provision. But having the capacity for commitment doesn’t automatically mean a man is ready for it. Readiness is a choice. A man has to decide when he’s prepared…
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Never Settle for Staying the Same
You Can Be Thankful for Today and Still Believe God Has More Growth Ahead As Christians, we should be thankful for where God has brought us. Every answered prayer, every lesson learned, every victory won, and every difficult season He carried us through deserves our gratitude. But being thankful for today does not mean we…
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Only Part of the Whole Picture
God Sees What We Cannot Yet See 1 Corinthians 13:9 (NLT) says, “Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture!” When We Want Something Badly Have you ever looked back on a decision and thought, If I knew then what I know now,…
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How Much Longer Will You Waver?
When the Heart Starts Splitting Loyalties There are moments in Scripture that don’t just teach—they confront. 1 Kings 18:21 NLT says, “Then Elijah stood in front of them and said, ‘How much longer will you waver, hobbling between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him! But if Baal is God, then follow him!’…
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Don’t Compromise Your Strength in Christ
When What Broke You Tries to Redefine You Philippians 4:13 (NLT) reminds us, “For I can do everything through Christ, who gives me strength.” That sounds simple—but if you miss what it’s really saying, you’ll miss the power you already carry. This isn’t about pushing through life in your own effort. This is about recognizing…
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The Deception That Looked Like Delay
When God Allows What We Didn’t Expect Genesis 28:1–2 (NLT) tells us that Isaac blessed Jacob and gave him clear direction: “You must not marry any of these Canaanite women… go at once… and take a wife from your own family.” Jacob wasn’t out there guessing. He was sent. Covered. Directed by God through his…
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The Excuse Instead of the Truth
Isaiah 61:3 (NLT) tells us, “To all who mourn in Israel, he will give a crown of beauty for ashes, a joyous blessing instead of mourning, festive praise instead of despair. In their righteousness, they will be like great oaks that the Lord has planted for his own glory.” That’s the promise. That’s what God offers. But…
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You Can Ask, But Are You Ready to Receive It?
Jesus said in Matthew 7:7-8 (NIV), “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” Those are powerful words from our…
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Trying to Please Man or Please God?
When Pleasing Others Pulls You Away from God Jeremiah 16:20 (NLT) asks, “Can people make their own gods?” The truth is, yes—and many do without even realizing it. Whenever we elevate human approval above God’s Will, we build a false altar in our hearts. For many single Christian women, this can happen quietly and unintentionally…
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God Always Allows Us to Choose
Realigning Our Hearts with God’s Will Romans 12:2 (NLT) “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” As children of the Most…
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The God Who Makes It Happen – Prayer
Trusting His Timing, Not Ours Waiting on God’s timing isn’t easy — especially when faith meets real-life desires. Whether it’s love, purpose, or unanswered prayers, the waiting can test our patience and our trust. But God’s plan is never late. Isaiah 60:22 reminds us that when the time is right, the Lord will make it…
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When the Struggle is Part of the Shift
The Hard Truth About Change Most of us don’t enjoy the process of transformation. And if we’re completely honest—if we could become the absolute best version of ourselves without the discomfort of growth, many of us would sign up for that shortcut. But truth and experience have taught us a hard lesson: growth requires shedding…
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Build Your Foundation on God
Prepare for a Lasting Marriage Before you say ‘I do,’ make sure your foundation is built on God—not feelings, timing, or circumstance. You and your special someone talking about marriage? Listen, before you start dreaming about a future together, do yourself a huge favor—get quality counseling from a wise, spirit-filled, believer who knows God’s Word.…
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Through God’s Grace
Learning to Trust God’s Timing and Preparation Jeremiah 29:11–14 (NLT) tells us, “For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. In those days when you pray, I will listen. If you look for me…
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Are You as Open to God’s Blessings as You Should Be?
Cynthia is 47 and has been a full-time Gospel singer since graduating college with a degree in music arts. Music has always been her world, and she’s genuinely grateful for a career she’s thoroughly enjoyed. She’s met nearly all of her favorite Gospel artists, even shared stages and green rooms with many of them. But…
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Intention Leads to Inspiration
For many, the start of a new year brings a sense of anticipation for change, especially for God’s single children. Many prophets are declaring that this is the year to receive what has been promised to us, and there’s nothing more inspiring than having our faith ignited in the right direction. Jesus teaches in Mark…
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When More is Required
Reordered Priorities in Singleness Do you know that God has a plan for how our single years are supposed to be occupied? Indeed, He does, and it doesn’t have anything to do with career goals or personal agendas. It has everything to do with worshiping Him and growing in faith. The Apostle Paul said in…
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Want a Successful Life – Give it to God
Allen and Jessica are complete opposites when it comes to planning their days. Allen is as chill as a cucumber—he never lets anything rattle him or get under his skin. He likes to take the day as it comes, rolling with whatever life throws at him. On the flip side, Jessica is often anxious and…
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Beyond Our Expectations
Two weeks went by with no phone call or text from Eric—the guy Lila had met at a friend’s housewarming. She had a whirlwind of questions racing through her mind: Why hadn’t she heard from him? The last month of getting to know each other felt promising—so what changed? Finally, she decided to call him.…
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After Years of Praying
In John 15:7 (NLT), Jesus Christ imparts a jewel of truth about the power of earnest prayer: “But if you remain in me and my words remain in you, you may ask for anything you want, and it will be granted!” Remaining in Christ means prioritizing God’s Will above all else in our lives. This…
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Am I Ready for My Spouse?
Luke 14:28-29(NLT) 28 “But don’t begin until you count the cost. For who would begin construction of a building without first calculating the cost to see if there is enough money to finish it? 29 Otherwise, you might complete only the foundation before running out of money, and then everyone would laugh at you. 30…
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When We Ask for More, More Is Required
Jesus Christ said in Luke 12:48 (NLT), “But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and when someone has been entrusted with much, even more will be required.” Our Lord and Master is teaching us…
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Limits and Boundaries Keep You from Stumbling
In His matchless Word, our Heavenly Father has set limits and boundaries for our actions, attitudes, behaviors, and thoughts because He wants us to prosper and have a successful life. He requires us, His children, to be disciplined in our conduct and living because this is the way His love operates. 2Timothy 1:7(NLT) tells us,…
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Stay Dressed for Action
Proverbs 12:25 (ESV) “Anxiety in a man’s heart weighs him down, but a good word makes him glad.” Whether it’s a relationship, situation, or other commitments and engagements, when their time in our lives is winding down, it’s a very challenging time for many of us. This is especially true when something very meaningful and…
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The Winning Position
A dear friend called me up recently and was very excited to tell me about her news. A co-worker encouraged her to sign-up on a dating app, and after contemplating it for several weeks, she finally did it. Single for the last ten years, she figured she’d give it another shot. It wasn’t long before…
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The Princess Treatment
Indulgences were once thought of as the practice of setting aside a sacred time to really pour on the love towards God, to make sacrifices that demonstrate our commitment to Him and our gratitude for His forgiveness. These days, indulgences are no longer about Christ, but about self. Back in the day, we’d splurge occasionally…
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Deepening Intimacy in Our Relationship with God
1Thessalonians 4:3-5(NLT) says, “3 God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. 4 Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor–5 not in lustful passion like the pagans who do not know God and his ways.” When we read this verse,…