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Don’t Let A Fear of Failure Stop You
The fear of failure can often feel like a heavy shackle, holding us back and turning our dreams into distant possibilities. We get paralyzed by doubt, standing still like a deer caught in headlights, too scared to make a move. But here’s the truth: waiting for everything to be perfect before we act can leave…
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The Activity of God
Ecclesiastes 11:5 (NLT) “Just as you cannot understand the path of the wind or the mystery of a tiny baby growing in its mother’s womb, so you cannot understand the activity of God, who does all things.” This verse really drives home how mysterious and beyond our grasp God’s work can be. Just like we…
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Words that Lead to Peace
Ephesians 4:29-32 (NLT) provides clear guidance on how we should communicate and live our lives. It says, “Don’t use foul or abusive language. Let everything you say be good and helpful, so that your words will be an encouragement to those who hear them. And do not bring sorrow to God’s Holy Spirit by the…
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What’s in Your Heart?
I’ve often heard the saying that you don’t truly know a person until you live with them. While there’s some truth to this, the Bible teaches us that the true nature of a person is revealed by what’s in their heart. Proverbs 27:19 (NLT) says, “As a face is reflected in water, so the heart…
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Be Clear About Your Desires
When you’re praying and making requests before God, it’s important to be specific about what you’re asking for. Being specific demonstrates that you’ve thoughtfully considered your desires and are mindful of what you truly need. Sometimes we ask God for blessings that might not be the best for our lives, requiring time, effort, and other…
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What Does God Think of Me?
Did you ever ask yourself, “what does God think of me?” Well, the answer to that question is beautifully articulated in Ephesians 2:10(NLT): “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” In the eyes of our Heavenly…
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Never Married
Here’s the scenario of a Christian woman who is turning 50, has never been married, and deeply desires to be. She is troubled by the advice and attitudes of those around her: “What happened? It feels like I just turned 40 yesterday. Time has flown by so quickly. In just a month, I’ll be celebrating…
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Take Every Thought Captive
What do you think about when you’re not busy, when you have some time to yourself? Do you have a habit of letting your mind wander aimlessly or drift into idle thoughts? This is something the Father advises us against. Allowing our minds to go idle for too long creates an opportunity for the enemy…
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Full of God’s Purpose
You don’t have to settle for a dull or empty life just because you’re single. Sometimes, a simple change in perspective can make a big difference. Instead of focusing on a list of ‘must-haves’ for a potential partner, try creating a list of qualities and actions you can bring to a new relationship. For example,…
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Get Ready, Stay Ready
We’ve all heard someone say, “I don’t have to get ready because I stay ready!” It sounds pretty confident, but it would be even better if everyone who said that really understood what God has promised us. Imagine if we all realized how God has prepared us to stand strong on His Word through Jesus…
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On the Path You’ve Dreamed About
A dear friend was finally on what she thought was the path out of a long period of singleness. She had met someone new at her church, and things seemed to be progressing well. He was following the steps that her pastor had taught—pursuing her with genuine interest. He called her almost daily, checked in…
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Embodying the Qualities You Desire
Many of us are concerned about the increasing number of Christian women that are single but greatly desire marriage. This trend prompts us to reflect on what might be contributing to the situation. We could probably come up with a dozen possible explanations, and they might include a scarcity of suitable Christian men, issues with…
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Wherever Your Treasure Is
Marriage was never intended by our Heavenly Father to be a difficult union. It is infinitely more than a legal contract. From the very beginning, God established marriage as a sacred covenant. In Genesis 2:24 (NLT), we read, “This explains why a man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and…
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Christians Can’t Become Too Comfortable
Being single can be challenging, especially when you’re shouldering responsibilities like raising children, working, and managing all the household expenses on your own. The weight of these responsibilities can sometimes feel overwhelming, opening the door for despair, doubt, and loneliness to creep in. Many single Christian women find themselves wondering how much longer they can…
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Hearing and Following the Holy Spirit’s Guidance
Hearing the voice of the Lord is essential in our walk with Him. As believers in the Lord Jesus Christ, God has placed His Holy Spirit in us, and the Holy Spirit interacts directly with our human spirit. Romans 8:16 (NLT) tells us, “For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are…
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Understand What God Wants You to Do
When you meet someone new who seems compatible, it’s very exciting. You might think that your prayers have been answered and find your perspective shifting from being lonely and sad to feeling optimistic and hopeful. Over the past several months, you’ve invested quality time praying often, studying the scriptures and meditating on God’s Word, preparing…
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God Doesn’t Want You to Be Sad
Life can be incredibly challenging, and we all face moments when sadness seems to engulf us. Whether it’s due to personal loss, stress, or the weight of daily struggles, these feelings can be overwhelming. But here’s a comforting and uplifting truth: God doesn’t want you to remain in that place of sadness. His desire is…
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Be on Guard and Alert
We live in uncertain and unpredictable times, where even the things we once took for granted, like our basic comforts and security, are no longer guaranteed. With so much up in the air, it’s crucial for us to stay alert and prepared. We cannot know the exact moment when our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ…
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In Search of the Other Half that Makes You Whole
Josephine’s biological parents were both alcoholics—her mother frequently in and out of rehab, and her father unable to keep a job for more than a month or two. Her grandmother took her in, raising her alongside her two cousins. Despite the abundant love Josephine’s grandmother provided, she always felt an emptiness from the absence of…
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My Husband Is in God’s Hands
Most men I know would likely agree that respect is the most important quality in a wife. This consensus suggests that, for many men, respect is a fundamental aspect of a successful marriage. Mutual respect not only sets the stage for a lasting union but is also a truth that seems universally acknowledged. Given its…
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When We Put Our Trust in God
In John 3, our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, converses with Nicodemus, a Pharisee and a member of the Jewish ruling council. Nicodemus comes to Jesus at night, possibly seeking a discreet conversation due to his position, as he is seeking a deeper understanding of Jesus’s teachings. Jesus responds with profound truths about spiritual rebirth…
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A Dream Fulfilled
A close friend and I were talking about how much she’s grown over the past year. She’s been abstinent and placing her trust in God while navigating her current season of singleness. Her last three-year relationship ended in disappointment when the man she was with confessed he wasn’t ready for marriage. It didn’t take a…
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Threatened by Your Light
John 1:11 tells us that Jesus Christ was rejected by the very people he came to save. He is pure love and light, but they did not receive him. As his devoted followers, we might find that some people will reject us because we carry his light and have his Spirit. In John 15:18 (NLT),…
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After Years of Praying
In John 15:7 (NLT), Jesus Christ imparts a jewel of truth about the power of earnest prayer: “But if you remain in me and my words remain in you, you may ask for anything you want, and it will be granted!” Remaining in Christ means prioritizing God’s Will above all else in our lives. This…
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A Love Built on God’s Standards
“I know exactly what I want from a man, and I want a relationship on my own terms. I think I deserve that.” My friend made this declaration as if it were her greatest epiphany. For those of us who know her well, reconciling this bold proclamation with the on-again, off-again relationship she’s been entangled…
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I’m Not Alone
1 Peter 5:9 (NLT) says, “Stand firm against him, and be strong in your faith. Remember that your family of believers all over the world is going through the same kind of suffering you are.” I didn’t fully grasp this verse until I talked with someone who was facing the exact same struggle that I…
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A Bitter Woman Who Finally Gets a Husband
God’s plans for us are always filled with hope and promise, and His intentions for our lives will ultimately prevail. However, our journey to receive these blessings can sometimes be hindered if our focus is misplaced or if our hearts are not aligned with His Will. As a woman who desires marriage, it is essential…
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Gate-keep God’s Promises
“I don’t like him for you. I think you deserve much better.” Cynthia’s cousin, Brenda, said this when Cynthia mentioned she was dating Collin, someone they both knew. Cynthia was hurt by Brenda’s comment but kept her feelings to herself. She and Collin had known each other since high school. A cutie, he was a…
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Before Your Vineyard of Love is Ruined
In Song of Solomon 2:15 (NLT), we read, “Catch all the foxes, those little foxes, before they ruin the vineyard of love, for the grapevines are blossoming!” In this verse, “foxes” are used metaphorically. Foxes were known to be destructive to vineyards, and during Old Testament times, their presence was considered a threat to the…
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Deny Yourself
Jesus Christ stated in Luke 9:23-24 (ESV), “If anyone would come after me, let him deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me. For whoever would save his life will lose it, but whoever loses his life for my sake will save it.” These verses offer profound insight into what it truly…