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God Always Allows Us to Choose
Realigning Our Hearts with God’s Will Romans 12:2 (NLT) “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” As children of the Most…
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I Don’t Feel Like Changing – Refusing to Let Go and Let God
When Comfort Turns Into Chains Denise is 55, single, and by all appearances, she’s got it together. She’s funny, successful, loved by friends, and serving faithfully in her church. She loves the Lord, and everybody knows that she will give you the shirt off her back. But underneath all that, sistergirl is like a concrete…
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I’m Attracting Men that Don’t Want Marriage
Align with God, Attract What He’s Prepared For many single Christian women, this is more than just a frustrating phase—it’s a deeply personal and often painful struggle. You invest in your faith, live with integrity, and approach relationships with hope, yet it can feel like the men you meet don’t share your desire for marriage—or…
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Reordered Priorities
Released – Breaking Free from the Things That Bind Us Some of us aren’t bound by chains of fear or shame — we’re bound by the weight of misaligned priorities. We keep saying “yes” to everything and everyone, but deep down, we know our soul is starving. Our schedules are full, but our spirits are…
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Waiting on God for Marriage: Are You Speaking Words of Faith?
The Power of Speaking Life in the Waiting Season There’s something sacred about waiting for the kind of love your heart longs for—the kind you’ve prayed for, cried over, and maybe even fasted about. A husband. A true covering. Someone to walk with, grow with, and build a life rooted in faith and trust. For…
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When Love Becomes an Idol
What Christians Need to Know About Idolizing Relationships We’ve all been there.That relationship you thought would last forever—the one you prayed about, cried over, dreamed up plans around. Then it ends. And suddenly, you feel like you’ve lost your center. That was me. A relationship I was sure would end in marriage ended instead in…
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Represent God’s Kingdom Well
Scripture Anchor Ephesians 4:32 (NLT) tells us, “Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” Soul Talk One of the most important qualities I prayed for in a husband was kindness. It’s a fruit of the Spirit that reaches me deeply. Kindness may not guarantee…
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A Heart Willing to Submit to Service
1 Corinthians 7:35 (NLT) “I am saying this for your benefit, not to place restrictions on you. I want you to do whatever will help you serve the Lord best, with as few distractions as possible.” As human beings, our vision is limited—we can only see so far. But our God in Heaven sees the…
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When A Truth Teller Walks in
There’s no doubt about it—God wants us to live well. He’s not sitting in heaven holding back blessings. That’s not His nature. From the very beginning, He made it clear that His children are supposed to thrive, not just survive. In John 10:10 (NLT), Jesus says, “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and…
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Lust Takes, Love Serves
Lust isn’t just a feeling—it’s a force. And it doesn’t come from God. It’s rooted in the kingdom of darkness and designed to rob you of purpose, peace, and purity. The Bible doesn’t play about this. Proverbs 27:20 (NLT) says, “Just as Death and Destruction are never satisfied, so human desire is never satisfied.” Lust…
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Right Direction Leads to the Right Person
Psalm 119:105 (NLT): “Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.” God’s presence is a place of peace, but it is also so much more than that—it’s a place of direction. A place of clarity. And if we’re honest, when we’re in “wait mode,” believing God for the…
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Sinful Words or Words that Save
Ephesians 4:29, 31 (NIV):“Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen… Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.” I once heard a…
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Jesus Christ Is the Answer
Each of us must ask ourselves what we want out of life—a fundamental question whose answer is often simpler than we realize, yet it requires us to dig a little deeper to uncover. Our spiritual teachers and mentors guide us to trust that Jesus Christ is the ultimate answer, a truth more profound than our…