The Connection Between the Heart and Our Daily Behavior Matthew 7:16 (NLT)“You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?” Why Christians Get Watched So Closely Growing up, I used to wonder why Christians getRead More →
A Christian Woman’s Guide to Discernment, Emotional Healing, and Spiritual Strength. When Ignorance Keeps You Paralyzed Luke 12:48 (NLT) says, “But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and whenRead More →
Bringing the Mind Under the Reign of the Spirit There are moments in our walk with God when the Spirit inside us knows a truth that our minds have yet to grasp. The Spirit says, “You’re free,” but the mind still wrestles with guilt. The Spirit whispers, “You’re healed,” butRead More →
Faith, Repentance, and the Treasure of Obedience When we were out and about, a man in his senior years thought my husband looked familiar and they struck up a conversation about the state of young Black males. He thinks they desperately need to be schooled and that the knowledge he’sRead More →
The Real Work Begins After the Blessing Lands Finally—it happened. You got the blessing you’ve been praying for! The thing you fasted for, cried over, and believed God would do—He did it. But now what? What do you do when the waiting season is over and the promise is finallyRead More →
When Love Changes Without Warning “He was a man that I trusted — someone I thought would have my back for the rest of my life. How did I miss the signs?” Many women have asked themselves that same question. Some of my dearest friends have come to me heartbroken,Read More →
When Faithful Hearts Can’t See Clearly: Overcoming Spiritual Blindness When I think about the many sisters in Christ who surround my life — my friends, role models, family, and partners in the faith — my heart overflows with gratitude. Hearing their testimonies, seeing their resilience, and watching sisters in ChristRead More →
Emotional Wounds and Faith: When Pain Builds Walls We don’t always realize it, but some of the hardest battles of faith don’t show up as attacks from the devil, they come from the walls we’ve built around our wounds. A wound left unchecked doesn’t just ache—it changes the architecture ofRead More →
When Commitment Lacks Communion Proverbs 30:21-23 (NLT): “There are three things that make the earth tremble—no, four it cannot endure: a slave who becomes a king, an overbearing fool who prospers, a bitter woman who finally gets a husband, a servant girl who supplants her mistress.” Some wear the ringRead More →
Trusting the One Who Never Misses a Promise God has a perfect track record of being trustworthy. Yet we have this pattern of underestimating Him—especially when we’re standing in the middle of a storm, and each one feels bigger than the last. It’s almost like, the harder life gets, theRead More →
Living Under the Shadow of the Almighty Psalm 91:1 (NLT) says, “Those who live in the shelter of the Most High will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.” God’s presence rules over everything—nothing in creation escapes His sight or control. But resting in His shadow isn’t about geography;Read More →
Guarding the Things That Matter Most in God’s Eyes Hebrews 10:14 (NLT) “For by that one offering he forever made perfect those who are being made holy.” Jesus Christ put a priceless value on us when He died on Calvary. His blood was the full payment for every sin, everyRead More →
How God Calls Us to Shift, Grow, and Prepare for What’s Next Proverbs 20:4 (ESV): “The sluggard does not plow in the autumn; he will seek at harvest and have nothing.” Fall has always been my favorite season. The cooler air, the vibrant colors of the leaves, the shift inRead More →
There’s a reason your soul feels restless when you’re chasing things that don’t last. Deep down, you were never meant to live for applause, approval, or the next opportunity. You were created for something higher—something eternal. Every breath, every moment, every part of your existence was designed to glorify God.Read More →
Life has a way of shaking our confidence. Somewhere along the way—through heartbreak, disappointment, or even childhood pain—we can start to forget who we are and whose we are. But God’s confidence was never taken from us; it’s still inside, waiting to rise again. The truth is, we don’t needRead More →
When Pleasing Others Pulls You Away from God Jeremiah 16:20 (NLT) asks, “Can people make their own gods?” The truth is, yes—and many do without even realizing it. Whenever we elevate human approval above God’s Will, we build a false altar in our hearts. For many single Christian women, thisRead More →
Realigning Our Hearts with God’s Will Romans 12:2 (NLT) “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.”Read More →
Choosing faith when fear tries to take control We all experience fear. Healthy fear keeps us from danger and helps us make wise choices. If you’ve ever been burned on the stove as a child, your mind learned quickly not to touch it again — that’s healthy fear doing itsRead More →
Redeeming Broken Pieces – Nothing Is Wasted with God Romans 8:28 (NLT) “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.” Life has a way of leaving us in pieces. Some ofRead More →
When life breaks us down, His presence is still the place of healing Life can be a battlefield, and the suffering we endure is often heavier than we could ever have imagined. It blindsides us, knocks the wind out of our souls, and leaves our hearts shredded into pieces. WhatRead More →
Walking the Line Between Friendship and Feelings It’s not impossible for a man and woman to be just friends—to keep it a 100% friendship without romance or having any false expectations. But we have to be real with ourselves, when it comes to friendships with the opposite sex, that lineRead More →
Trusting His Timing, Not Ours Waiting on God’s timing isn’t easy — especially when faith meets real-life desires. Whether it’s love, purpose, or unanswered prayers, the waiting can test our patience and our trust. But God’s plan is never late. Isaiah 60:22 reminds us that when the time is right,Read More →
Trusting His Timing, Not Ours Isaiah 60:22 (NLT): “At the right time, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” The truth revealed in Isaiah 60:22 is a powerful promise—it reminds us that timing belongs to God, not us. And if we’re honest, that’s a truth most of us have toRead More →
When Comfort Turns Into Chains Denise is 55, single, and by all appearances, she’s got it together. She’s funny, successful, loved by friends, and serving faithfully in her church. She loves the Lord, and everybody knows that she will give you the shirt off her back. But underneath all that,Read More →
The Hard Truth About Change Most of us don’t enjoy the process of transformation. And if we’re completely honest—if we could become the absolute best version of ourselves without the discomfort of growth, many of us would sign up for that shortcut. But truth and experience have taught us aRead More →
Jesus: The Model of a Kingdom Mindset Jesus Christ is the living Word of God. He is our Heavenly Father’s Son whom He loves more than we can know. Romans 8:29 (NLT) tells us, “For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son,Read More →
God Sees the Christ in You You might be dreaming about the man you’ve been praying to meet, but have you thought about how much more eager God is to spend time with you? There’s no pretense with Him. You don’t need a rehearsed line or a practiced smile. GodRead More →
Getting to Know the Person of Jesus Christ Salvation Is a Miraculous Change Someone once said to me, “I know plenty of people who say they’re saved, but they’re doing the same things I do—and some are doing worse.” And it’s true—many people wrestle with that observation. They wonder, What’sRead More →
Align with God, Attract What He’s Prepared For many single Christian women, this is more than just a frustrating phase—it’s a deeply personal and often painful struggle. You invest in your faith, live with integrity, and approach relationships with hope, yet it can feel like the men you meet don’tRead More →
When the Cost Outweighs the Moment Looking back, most of us have asked ourselves the hard question: was it really worth it? Was it worth the pain we carried, the consequences we couldn’t avoid, or the hurt we caused the people we love? Poor decisions always come with a price,Read More →
