Category: Single Life

Single Life offers biblical teaching, encouragement, and practical wisdom to help Christian women grow in Christ, navigate relationships, embrace purpose, and live fully in every season of singleness.

  • The Strong Foundation

    The Strong Foundation

    When His Attention Starts to Mean More Than God’s Approval There’s a certain kind of attention from a man that can have a sista smiling at her phone before she even reads the message. You know what I’m talking about. He’s thoughtful, he’s consistent, and he seems genuinely interested in getting to know you. You…

  • When You Can’t See What God Is Doing

    When You Can’t See What God Is Doing

    Trusting God When the Road Between Where You Are and Where You Want to Be Feels Too Long For some single women who have prayed to God for a husband, the distance between point A and point B has started to feel like a wilderness experience. You have prayed. You have waited. You have tried…

  • You Are Not Fighting Alone

    You Are Not Fighting Alone

    For a woman who has been single much longer than she ever thought, reminders that we’re unmarried come from many places. Even filling out a job application and checking that single status once again can bring a reminder we could do without. It just doesn’t seem right. You might ask yourself, Will this part of…

  • Pay Attention to Your Own Walk

    Pay Attention to Your Own Walk

    Galatians 6:4–5 (NLT): “4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. 5 For we are each responsible for our own conduct.”  When Comparison Distracts You From What God Is Doing in You There are some scriptures…

  • A Woman Who Has Never Been Married

    A Woman Who Has Never Been Married

    When You Have Never Been Married, But Still Desire Marriage In 1 Corinthians 7:32–35 (NLT), Paul explains that there is a freedom available in singleness that should not be overlooked. Marriage is a blessing, but it also brings responsibilities that require a husband or wife to divide their attention between serving the Lord and caring…

  • Will God Meet Me in My Sadness?

    Will God Meet Me in My Sadness?

    When loneliness makes you question whether obedience is worth the wait Proverbs 4:26 (NLT) says, “Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path.” There is something we need to understand when we are making decisions about our relationships: God expects us to use the wisdom and truth He has given…

  • How Do I Get There?

    How Do I Get There?

    The Bible doesn’t give us a step-by-step guide called “How to Date,” but it does give us God’s wisdom for how we are supposed to live. That means dating isn’t something we have to figure out without Him. God cares about how we handle every part of our lives, including how we choose the person…

  • Chemistry Is Not the Same as Confirmation

    Chemistry Is Not the Same as Confirmation

    Chemistry can be powerful. You meet someone, you enjoy being around them, you can talk for hours, and there is an attraction that feels natural. You may feel like you have known them forever. There is nothing wrong with having chemistry with someone, but we have to be careful about what we allow those feelings…

  • Stop Limiting God to Your Expectations

    Stop Limiting God to Your Expectations

    Most women I know aren’t praying for an ordinary marriage. They’re praying for God’s best, and there’s nothing wrong with praying that way. In fact, I hope you never settle for less than God’s best. But here’s a question I had to ask myself one day: Do I really know what God’s best is. At…

  • Are You Becoming What You’re Praying For?

    Are You Becoming What You’re Praying For?

    Hebrews 11:6 (NKJV) “But without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him.” Most of us have something we’re believing God for. For some, it’s a godly husband. For others, it’s healing, financial…

  • Before You Give Him Your Heart

    Before You Give Him Your Heart

    Why putting Jesus Christ first changes everything Before you give your heart to someone else, there is a question that deserves your honest attention. It’s a question that should come before the attraction, before the excitement of a new relationship, and before you begin imagining what the future might look like together. Has your heart…

  • Faith In What God Can Do Through You

    Faith In What God Can Do Through You

    Trusting God With Your Future While Serving Him Today Philippians 4:19 (NLT) says, “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.” Most believers are familiar with this verse. We’ve quoted it when money was tight, when…