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She Kept Kissing the Savior’s Feet
Understanding the Woman Who Broke Barriers to Worship Luke 7:36-38(NLT) “36 One of the Pharisees asked Jesus to have dinner with him, so Jesus went to his home and sat down to eat. 37 When a certain immoral woman from that city heard he was eating there, she brought a beautiful alabaster jar filled with…
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When God Sends the Help You Need
Two Are Better Than One — God Designed It This Way Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 (NLT) paints a picture of how God designed life to work: “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed… If one person falls, the other can reach out and help… A person standing alone can be…
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The Windows of Heaven
Giving: The Hidden Key to Alignment and Blessing Luke 6:37-38 (NLT) “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full—pressed down, shaken together…
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Chosen Above All Others
Identity First. Connection Second. Destiny Always. 1 Kings 11:1-3 (NLT): “11 Now King Solomon loved many foreign women. Besides Pharaoh’s daughter, he married women from Moab, Ammon, Edom, Sidon, and from among the Hittites. 2 The Lord had clearly instructed the people of Israel, “You must not marry them, because they will turn your hearts to their gods.” Yet Solomon…
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Behavior Flows From the Heart
The Connection Between the Heart and Our Daily Behavior Matthew 7:16 (NLT)“You can identify them by their fruit, that is, by the way they act. Can you pick grapes from thornbushes, or figs from thistles?” Why Christians Get Watched So Closely Growing up, I used to wonder why Christians get watched so closely. But the…
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The Act of Desperation
A Christian Woman’s Guide to Discernment, Emotional Healing, and Spiritual Strength. When Ignorance Keeps You Paralyzed Luke 12:48 (NLT) says, “But someone who does not know, and then does something wrong, will be punished only lightly. When someone has been given much, much will be required in return; and when someone has been entrusted with…
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Where Were the Signs?
When Love Changes Without Warning “He was a man that I trusted — someone I thought would have my back for the rest of my life. How did I miss the signs?” Many women have asked themselves that same question. Some of my dearest friends have come to me heartbroken, wondering how the person they…
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The Veil That Keeps You Blind
When Faithful Hearts Can’t See Clearly: Overcoming Spiritual Blindness When I think about the many sisters in Christ who surround my life — my friends, role models, family, and partners in the faith — my heart overflows with gratitude. Hearing their testimonies, seeing their resilience, and watching sisters in Christ rise in strength all over…
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Those Who Wear the Ring but Miss the Relationship
When Commitment Lacks Communion Proverbs 30:21-23 (NLT): “There are three things that make the earth tremble—no, four it cannot endure: a slave who becomes a king, an overbearing fool who prospers, a bitter woman who finally gets a husband, a servant girl who supplants her mistress.” Some wear the ring but have long forgotten the…
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New Beginnings Require Adjustment
How God Calls Us to Shift, Grow, and Prepare for What’s Next Proverbs 20:4 (ESV): “The sluggard does not plow in the autumn; he will seek at harvest and have nothing.” Fall has always been my favorite season. The cooler air, the vibrant colors of the leaves, the shift in light—it all signals change, and…
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Trying to Please Man or Please God?
When Pleasing Others Pulls You Away from God Jeremiah 16:20 (NLT) asks, “Can people make their own gods?” The truth is, yes—and many do without even realizing it. Whenever we elevate human approval above God’s Will, we build a false altar in our hearts. For many single Christian women, this can happen quietly and unintentionally…
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Just Friends — It Is Possible, but the Line Is Very Thin
Walking the Line Between Friendship and Feelings It’s not impossible for a man and woman to be just friends—to keep it a 100% friendship without romance or having any false expectations. But we have to be real with ourselves, when it comes to friendships with the opposite sex, that line can get razor thin. It…
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The God Who Makes It Happen – Prayer
Trusting His Timing, Not Ours Waiting on God’s timing isn’t easy — especially when faith meets real-life desires. Whether it’s love, purpose, or unanswered prayers, the waiting can test our patience and our trust. But God’s plan is never late. Isaiah 60:22 reminds us that when the time is right, the Lord will make it…
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The God Who Makes It Happen
Trusting His Timing, Not Ours Isaiah 60:22 (NLT): “At the right time, I, the Lord, will make it happen.” The truth revealed in Isaiah 60:22 is a powerful promise—it reminds us that timing belongs to God, not us. And if we’re honest, that’s a truth most of us have to keep revisiting. Because when waiting…
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I Don’t Feel Like Changing – Refusing to Let Go and Let God
When Comfort Turns Into Chains Denise is 55, single, and by all appearances, she’s got it together. She’s funny, successful, loved by friends, and serving faithfully in her church. She loves the Lord, and everybody knows that she will give you the shirt off her back. But underneath all that, sistergirl is like a concrete…
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When the Struggle is Part of the Shift
The Hard Truth About Change Most of us don’t enjoy the process of transformation. And if we’re completely honest—if we could become the absolute best version of ourselves without the discomfort of growth, many of us would sign up for that shortcut. But truth and experience have taught us a hard lesson: growth requires shedding…
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Do You Have a Kingdom Mindset?
Jesus: The Model of a Kingdom Mindset Jesus Christ is the living Word of God. He is our Heavenly Father’s Son whom He loves more than we can know. Romans 8:29 (NLT) tells us, “For God knew his people in advance, and he chose them to become like his Son, so that his Son would…
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You Are Enough to God
God Sees the Christ in You You might be dreaming about the man you’ve been praying to meet, but have you thought about how much more eager God is to spend time with you? There’s no pretense with Him. You don’t need a rehearsed line or a practiced smile. God wants you just as you…
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I’m Attracting Men that Don’t Want Marriage
Align with God, Attract What He’s Prepared For many single Christian women, this is more than just a frustrating phase—it’s a deeply personal and often painful struggle. You invest in your faith, live with integrity, and approach relationships with hope, yet it can feel like the men you meet don’t share your desire for marriage—or…
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Is It Worth It?
When the Cost Outweighs the Moment Looking back, most of us have asked ourselves the hard question: was it really worth it? Was it worth the pain we carried, the consequences we couldn’t avoid, or the hurt we caused the people we love? Poor decisions always come with a price, but if we’re paying attention,…
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God’s Shield of Love
When Marriage Feels Like the Final Destination For many single women, marriage feels like the final destination—the ultimate goal and purpose in life. That’s why some lose a part of themselves once they’ve slipped on the ring or walked down the aisle with their “finally-forever” husband. Finally, somebody noticed me. Finally, I’ve got a man.…
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Choosing the Love of Christ in Action
The Sacrifice of Surrender Luke 6:27 (NLT) says, “But to you who are willing to listen, I say, love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you.” Choosing to love through Christ requires surrender to the Holy Spirit—and surrender always involves sacrifice. It means we’ve got to let go of our own way and…
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Complaining on Your Journey
What Are You Saying on the Way to Your Promise? Every Christian can testify: the journey to your promised land can wear you down—mentally, emotionally, even spiritually. It can be exhausting. And the enemy is relentless, throwing distraction after distraction to make you doubt what God has already promised. But here’s what we need to…
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The Benefit of Two People Together
The Strength of Covenant and Connection “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble… A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and…
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Let the Love of Christ Recharge Your Life!
“Then Jesus said, ‘Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy to bear, and…
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Waiting on God for Marriage: Are You Speaking Words of Faith?
The Power of Speaking Life in the Waiting Season There’s something sacred about waiting for the kind of love your heart longs for—the kind you’ve prayed for, cried over, and maybe even fasted about. A husband. A true covering. Someone to walk with, grow with, and build a life rooted in faith and trust. For…
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Prayers That Match God’s Heart – Praying in His Will
True power in prayer comes when our desires align with God’s Will Prayer is more than bringing God a list of requests—it’s about drawing near to Him and learning His heart. When our prayers don’t unfold the way we imagined, it’s not because God is absent. It’s because He’s inviting us closer—into a deeper place…
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When Love Becomes an Idol
What Christians Need to Know About Idolizing Relationships We’ve all been there.That relationship you thought would last forever—the one you prayed about, cried over, dreamed up plans around. Then it ends. And suddenly, you feel like you’ve lost your center. That was me. A relationship I was sure would end in marriage ended instead in…
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Are You All In?
Someone asked me the other day, “Are you a Christian Christian… or just a Christian?” At first, I laughed and brushed it off, but then it hit me—this man was asking something real. What he wanted to know was, “Are you all in for God—or are you just saying you’re a believer because it sounds…
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Long Months of Drought Coming to an End
Scripture AnchorJeremiah 17:5-8 (NLT) says, “This is what the Lord says: Cursed are those who put their trust in mere humans, who rely on human strength and turn their hearts away from the Lord. They are like stunted shrubs in the desert, with no hope for the future. They will live in the barren wilderness,…