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Sharing in the Weakness of Others
Sometimes People Need to Experience the Love of Christ Before They Need to Hear Our Advice A few months ago, I met a young woman who is twenty-one years old, has a one-year-old child, and is engaged to the father of her child. I saw her recently, and she asked me for relationship advice. She…
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You Are Not Fighting Alone
For a woman who has been single much longer than she ever thought, reminders that we’re unmarried come from many places. Even filling out a job application and checking that single status once again can bring a reminder we could do without. It just doesn’t seem right. You might ask yourself, Will this part of…
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When Relationships Become More Important Than Their Purpose
When God Gives Us People for a Purpose God created us for relationships. From the beginning, He made it clear that being connected to other people was part of His design. Genesis 2:18 (NLT) says, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper who is just right for…
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Pay Attention to Your Own Walk
Galatians 6:4–5 (NLT): “4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. 5 For we are each responsible for our own conduct.” When Comparison Distracts You From What God Is Doing in You There are some scriptures…
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Say What God Says
When What You See Doesn’t Match What God Has Said It’s so easy to look at the disappointments of life and simply accept what we see. It’s easier to sink into sadness—to curl up in a ball and cry until there are no more tears left. When this kind of pain greets us every day,…
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A Woman Who Has Never Been Married
When You Have Never Been Married, But Still Desire Marriage In 1 Corinthians 7:32–35 (NLT), Paul explains that there is a freedom available in singleness that should not be overlooked. Marriage is a blessing, but it also brings responsibilities that require a husband or wife to divide their attention between serving the Lord and caring…
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Will God Meet Me in My Sadness?
When loneliness makes you question whether obedience is worth the wait Proverbs 4:26 (NLT) says, “Mark out a straight path for your feet; stay on the safe path.” There is something we need to understand when we are making decisions about our relationships: God expects us to use the wisdom and truth He has given…
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Light to the Deepest Gloom
A broken heart is more than a break—it can be a signal that God wants to take the healing deeper within us. Heartbreak has a way of bringing things to the surface that we may not have recognized before—wounds, patterns, fears, misplaced hopes, and even places where our faith needs to grow. And when we…
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Am I Allowed to Ask “Why”?
There Is a Difference Between Questioning God and Asking God Questions James 1:5 (NLT) says, “If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking.” How many times have you wanted to ask God a question but stopped yourself because you felt like…
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Finish Faithfully
Becoming saved isn’t just about avoiding hell, and it’s not a get-out-of-jail-free card. Being a follower of Christ is more than being able to say we’re going to Heaven. When we become saved, it doesn’t mean that we’re then going to live a perfect life. Giving our lives to Jesus Christ is an acknowledgment that…
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It’s Time to Wake Up
Lucy is 63 years old, and she is very aware of it. She knows her knees don’t always cooperate like they used to, she knows she needs a little more recovery time after a long day, and she knows that some of the things she wore at 30 probably need to stay at 30. But…
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Stop Limiting God to Your Expectations
Most women I know aren’t praying for an ordinary marriage. They’re praying for God’s best, and there’s nothing wrong with praying that way. In fact, I hope you never settle for less than God’s best. But here’s a question I had to ask myself one day: Do I really know what God’s best is. At…
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Life Before Salvation Isn’t Life at All
Living life outside of salvation is simply existing. True life—abundant life—can only really be experienced through Jesus Christ. He willingly laid down His own life so that we could truly live. The moment we accept Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior, we pass from death into life. Colossians 1:13-14 (NLT) says, “For he has…
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You Have Been Set Free
How the Truth of Jesus Christ Breaks the Lies That Keep Us Bound John 8:32 (NLT) “And you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” We can’t get any plainer than what our Master Jesus has said in this simple yet extremely powerful verse. The truth sets us free, and when it…
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When You’ve Fallen, Get Back Up
Why Your Past Doesn’t Have to Define Your Future Every believer has a moment they wish they could take back. A decision they regret. Words they wish they had never been spoken. A season when they knew they wandered from God’s best. If you’ve experienced this and walked with Jesus Christ for any length of…
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Before You Give Him Your Heart
Why putting Jesus Christ first changes everything Before you give your heart to someone else, there is a question that deserves your honest attention. It’s a question that should come before the attraction, before the excitement of a new relationship, and before you begin imagining what the future might look like together. Has your heart…
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The Stronghold of Fantasy
When the Life You Imagined Competes With God’s Will There was a season when I lived more in my imagination than I did in reality. I wasn’t daydreaming for fun. I was building a life. I had the timeline, the relationships, the victories, and the happy ending all mapped out in my mind. Somewhere along…
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What Are You Still Holding On To?
When Jesus Christ Is Calling You to Let Go The Weight We Learn to Live With Sometimes we don’t realize how much we’ve been carrying until the Holy Spirit begins putting His finger on it. What once felt normal starts to feel heavy in the presence of God. Hebrews 12:1 (NLT) tells us, “let us…
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Only Part of the Whole Picture
God Sees What We Cannot Yet See 1 Corinthians 13:9 (NLT) says, “Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture!” When We Want Something Badly Have you ever looked back on a decision and thought, If I knew then what I know now,…
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Faith In What God Can Do Through You
Trusting God With Your Future While Serving Him Today Philippians 4:19 (NLT) says, “And this same God who takes care of me will supply all your needs from his glorious riches, which have been given to us in Christ Jesus.” Most believers are familiar with this verse. We’ve quoted it when money was tight, when…
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His Light Outshines Our Flaws
John 4:4 (NLT) “But you belong to God, my dear children. You have already won a victory over those people, because the Spirit who lives in you is greater than the spirit who lives in the world.” I caught something real this week. The moment I fall short of God’s standard, the pressure hits fast.…
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An Unguarded Heart
What Happens When the Heart Isn’t Guarded in Christ Proverbs 4:23 says, “Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life” (NLT). That verse is serious because the heart is where our desires, choices, loyalty, and direction are shaped. If the heart is left open to anything and everything, life…
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How Much Longer Will You Waver?
When the Heart Starts Splitting Loyalties There are moments in Scripture that don’t just teach—they confront. 1 Kings 18:21 NLT says, “Then Elijah stood in front of them and said, ‘How much longer will you waver, hobbling between two opinions? If the Lord is God, follow him! But if Baal is God, then follow him!’…
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You Can Ask, But Are You Ready to Receive It?
Jesus said in Matthew 7:7-8 (NIV), “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.” Those are powerful words from our…
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Lights in This Dark World
Matthew 5:14 (NLT) “You are the light of the world—like a city on a hilltop that cannot be hidden.” This world is not our home—we’re just passing through. That may sound like something sweet we say in church, but it’s real truth. When Jesus Christ stepped into this world, He came as light entering a…
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When Your Heart Starts Lying to You
How our desires can quietly lead us away from God’s plan There’s a reason Scripture doesn’t tell us to follow our hearts—it tells us to guard them. The heart feels deeply, yes, but it also drifts easily. Without God’s truth holding it steady, it can lead us into places we never intended to go. How…
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The Final Destination
Where is God taking you I recently heard a woman say during an interview that she wanted more out of her marriage. She acknowledged that her husband was faithful, successful, a provider who paid the bills and helped raise their three children. By all visible measures, she was blessed. And yet, she felt unsettled. What…
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Let Me Take Your Name
When Faith Slips into Desperation Isaiah 4:1 (NLT) “In that day so few men will be left that seven women will fight for each man, saying, “Let us all marry you! We will provide our own food and clothing. Only let us take your name so we won’t be mocked as old maids.” So many…
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God Mends the Broken Heart
What Heartbreak Reveals About Your Heart Matthew 6:33(NLT) “Seek the Kingdom of God above all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.” One of the realest questions a hurting heart ever asks is this: Can God actually protect my heart? Because when love shifts—when someone you thought was moving toward…
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Don’t Be Fooled by Appearance
How to Discern True Blessings from Counterfeits Sheri thought she had it all figured out. The man she believed was “the one” was handsome, charming, ambitious—and when he said he wanted to marry her, it felt like a dream finally coming true. Friends envied her, family congratulated her, and even her own heart raced with…